Its a real advantage to have a happy persona and have a positive outlook on life. Everything is always good, and bad things are quickly briksed under the carpet. I do believe people like this have a very happy and good life, even if they have nothing and are dirt poor.
Some people are real misery guts, always complaining, and looking for things wrong. C is certainly of this character, hes always miserable. I think that people like this will always be miserable, and have short lives with unhappy and painful ends.
I am not sure where I fit in, I am certainly not miserable all the time, I think I probably am quite chirppy, but there are limits. I do get annoyed and upset at time, but I do look mostly at the positive side of things. I think that its this clash of personalities which makes things difficult between the two of us, he thinks I'm too easy going, I think hes such a misery guts.
Things have improved between us, he seems to be listening to me more now and I have taken my mothers advice, let it all go into one ear and out the other, and I am doing that, and I feel so much happier about it. No major rows yet, but I am nearly at the end of my maternity leave and due back at work soon, and then I am sure things will be much better as I won't be seeing him as often as I do right now! Can't wait for that