I've been faced with a new dilema to contemplate with. C is just as mad as ever, its a long story, but last night I calmly told him that where he works - part time at the university - are unlikely to renew his contract for next year. The reason why, is because he had a one year contract, and he worked for 3 months then decided it was too much, so he got someone else to do his work for him (all above board, the university knows about it). I know I wouldn't hire anyone to do a job again, when they didn't finish it off the fist time.
Well, he went mad as usual, went far again with his talk. He told me of all the abuse I have inflicted on him (yep vacuum flask incident) and i told him he provoked me. Well, in the short of it, he said I should just shoot myself in the head, as nobody really wants me around. Its a good job I am more stable in the head than that, and won't do something silly like that.
But he made one other threat, one other threat that is really serious, that I am not sure what to do about it (any ideas welcome). He said that he would take N and disappear off to Libya and I would never see them again. He said his mother would care for my daughter. I know this stuff does happen quite alot, I am really not sure what to do about it. But I am taking this seriously, especially as I am due back at work in a couple of months and I will be leaving N for long periods of time with him or at the nursery. Help?
