Well I am trying to make an effort to blog more, and things are getting better. Its as if C was reading my blog, but it can't be can it??? Can he have discovered my secret? But hes getting better at dealing with the fact that I am at work, and hes going to have to be more hands on. We haven't had any raging rows lately, mostly because I am working all day, so we don't get the chance to.
So there you go, good marriage counselling - get a job, then you see each other less and argue less.
That was my bit of good advice for the day. N is one years old tomorrow and its a huge deal for me, the day she was born and suddenly when she became the most important thing in my life.
And if I am really honest, perhaps that is the main problem with C, hes jealous of that, and thats why he tries to demean me. I know I don't really pay him the attention I used to, and he always comes second, is it my fault, have I brought it on myself? Or is he going to just have to grow up and accept it?
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It's so normal when you have a wee one that other things have to be less important. The baby's needs are way more high priority as she can do nothing for herself. He really does have to grow up if he's not coping with that. I'm glad your life is easier with the job. I think full-time housewives get taken for granted. It's nice to see what it's like when you're not doing the whole house 'thing' yourself xxx