its been a hard weekend. And I haven't blogged properly in a while. C and I are still living apart after the fiasco of several weeks ago. We have agreed to "get back together" but only with changes. These changes have not been implemented, and hes still raving like a mad man. The thing is that I don't need to make him look mad, hes doing that all by himself.
So his latest rantings on... he wants £20,000 from me. He says its "all the money he has spent on my ass". Erm, that was in the first year we were married and it included him paying for food clothes etc.. and I paid for bills and rent. ANd now he wants it back. I am so outraged, mostly because for the last FIVE years, I have spent money on his ass, and not just rent and bills and food, but his bloody university fees which are £3000 a year. What a croc?
My parents said that under no circumstances am I to give him a penny, I have to remember that, because for peace and quiet, I might just give it to him to get him out my life. But like I said, hes sounding more and more insane, so I am not even trying. ANd another thing he is doing is randomly taping me on his phone video to try and "gather evidence". What a nutter, evidence for what? I didn't do anything?
So no, we are not living together, I just have to put up with him for 1/2 days a week when he comes in the weekend to see N. And thats enough to totally drive me up the wall.
However I have a suspicion, its just a gut feeling, but I think hes left the country and gone home to Libya. He never said anything, I have no ticket, but I just have that feeling from little things I have seen. A reciept I just found for 7 boxes of chocolate (one for each of his neices/nephews), suitcase missing, and the fact that he has totally disappeared over the last 2 days. I will blog later to confirm if this is true or not, but I hope he has gone so he can just get away from me.
