Once in a life of a muslim woman....

In response to: "getting it together" 71 days old
by Cristian [Visitor]

My opinion is that things aren't that pink between you. You should probably try seeing a family therapist or something that can actually help your relationship. Don't be afraid to ask for help if you want to save your marriage.
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Birmingha more…

In response to: "Arranged Marriages" 353 days old
by Cristian [Visitor]

If you know married couples with problems send them to a marriage counselor. Maybe they will stand a chance in the face of destiny. more…

In response to: "eastenders" 395 days old
by Taniquel [Visitor]

God, you have come so far ... PLEASE for the sake of your daughter do not get back together with that abusive husband of yours. For the sake of your daughter, give her the example of a strong woman who looks out for what is best for the family, which includes NOT staying married to an abusive partner. If you can't find a man who is not abusive, i more…

In response to: "Sticks and Stones may Break my Bones...." 395 days old
by Taniquel [Visitor]

The answer to your dilemma lies in the one thing that everyone; your mother, your religion, your society will tell you not to do: and that is to permanently end a relationship with someone who does not treat you with respect. Until you allow yourself the right to take this power, which is your due, you will always feel like a wimp. A good and du more…

In response to: "eastenders" 415 days old
by deleted user [Visitor]

The overwhelming majority of people are not paedophiles , though of course a small minority are , so I can understand parents having those fears . more…

In response to: "ramadan" 423 days old
by deleted user [Visitor]

Thanks for explaining about Ramadan ; for how many days does it last ? more…

In response to: "Arranged Marriages" 424 days old
by Mansi [Visitor]

Hi!

My name is Mansi and I am an intern for Dr.Robert Epstein. He is currently researching involving arranged marriages. Hence I was wondering if you knew of any couples who have had an arranged marriage and would like to answer few questions. Please note, that I am only looking for couples that have had successful arranged marriages. more…

In response to: "mind games" 425 days old
by subville [Member]

I'm just glad he's already there. Cos if he'd been planning it and hadn't gone yet, then came to collect N .... more…

In response to: "mind games" 425 days old
by deleted user [Visitor]

Men are far too good at playing mind games! more…

In response to: "Chocolate" 427 days old
by Andi M [Visitor]

Hi-hope everything is going OK. Peacocks have some great maternity clothes, great value and very good quality. Every little helps etc! more…

In response to: "shattered" 428 days old
by trintrin1x [Member]

That would be good if u found a smaller place at least it would be one thing not to worry about,gettin the money together for the rent,no wonder ur exahsted u are probably emotionaly drained as well, if he is away at least u will get some peace n quiet. :) x more…

In response to: "fasts and stuff" 428 days old
by Archaic-Insanity [Member]

I have known what Ramadan is for some time now. But what I have never understood is, the purpose of it.
Would you care to shed a bit of light on the subkect for me please? more…

In response to: "shattered" 428 days old
by subville [Member]

He should be paying maintenance for N, that would help a great deal. Contact the CSA?

Glad he hasn't gone to Libya with N. I was worrying about that xxx

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In response to: "humph" 430 days old
by deleted user [Visitor]

I must confess to having laughed while reading some of that , and Trina's comment - not that it's not very serious , it is , but a sense of humour can sometimes help ?!

£20K is ridiculous ! , maybe a quarter , at most half of that , only if he agrees to sign a legally binding , mutually acceptable agreement ,

Best wishes more…

In response to: "humph" 430 days old
by trintrin1x [Member]

The guy is derandged obviously, what a cheek to ask you for anything, he's not fit to even wipe your arse! sorry but it's true, I know u can't curse cause its Ramadan so i'll do it for u :)) Hope u and N are okay. :) xxx more…

In response to: "humph" 430 days old
by subville [Member]

That stuff he's doing is ridiculous! Does he really think you will want him back when he's behaving like that?! Surely he can see that you've put your foot down and won't put up with being treated like rubbish. No need to answer all those :))

(some) MEN! :roll:

{{{hugs}}} more…

In response to: "islamic extremism" 436 days old
by mazzy [Member]

The press have so much to answer for. Mind you, so do this government, who throughout their tenure have reacted to any old rubbish in the media in their usual knee-jerk way. What makes it worse for me is that there seems to be no recourse to an apology, no chance for others to have their say. I personally think it is racism in other forms, it is ce more…

In response to: "islamic extremism" 436 days old
by muslimdilema [Member]

I totally agree with you there, its just awful the way that asylum seekers are treated, espeically consdering the horrors they have already faced. Anything for a good peice of gossip, thats what the media sharks love. more…

In response to: "islamic extremism" 436 days old
by mazzy [Member]

Your'e right, it is predominantly Islamic extremisn that gets reported, as well as a disproportionate amount of negative press generally. Bush and Putin are extremists, but are allowed to carry on, though not for much longer. To me, the negativepress for Islam generally is analogous to the press given to asylum seekers, refugees, and migrants gener more…

In response to: "capital punishment" 436 days old
by deleted user [Visitor]

hi friend how are you? hope you are fine now? more…

In response to: "capital punishment" 437 days old
by muslimdilema [Member]

thanks for the comment, will try :0) more…

In response to: "capital punishment" 437 days old
by muslimdilema [Member]

no hes not living with me. He just comes back in the weekend to see N. You;re right, I just have to make him look like a mad man, then thats the only way I think I can get out of this one, I hope I won't even have to lie then, people would be so outraged that it would backfire. thanks for the comments more…

In response to: "capital punishment" 437 days old
by muslimdilema [Member]

thanks hun, I'll survive, just have to be on my guard. Its not been an easy ride... more…

In response to: "capital punishment" 437 days old
by muslimdilema [Member]

thanks for your support, not always doing the right thing though... making serious long term decisions so hard at the moment....

I think Ihave to wait and see how things pan out in the long term more…

In response to: "capital punishment" 440 days old
by deleted user [Visitor]

Just to add that his calling you a 'dead woman walking' sounds frighteningly like a threat , to be taken seriously , and possibly reported to the police ? more…

In response to: "Arranged Marriages" 441 days old
by Gaf44 [Member]

rachel,

I'd like to take part, i have some experience about arranged marriages, if you want, drop me an email at gaf.akash@gmail.com.

Cheers

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In response to: "capital punishment" 441 days old
by deleted user [Visitor]

As your story revealed the facts. Most important thing is to protect yourself first. Try to take the opinion of Doctor on this issue. Just try to forget your past & try to remain in present. more…

In response to: "capital punishment" 442 days old
by deleted user [Visitor]

Is he back living with you ?
Yes , start to 'open up' to your family that his unpredictable , irrational , delusional behaviour has been gradually becoming far worse than ( because you did'nt want to worry them ) you've ever told them before .
If or when he comes up with the 'abortion' story you could even claim that he's 'got a thing a more…

In response to: "capital punishment" 442 days old
by deleted user [Visitor]

I really really hope you are going to be ok.
Although i dont comment, i DO read your blog and i cant believe what he is putting you through. Best of luck with your plan and i hope all turns out well
xx more…

In response to: "capital punishment" 442 days old
by subville [Member]

So much for all his big talk about wanting you back :|

Some men take so long to grow up. You are definitely doing the right things here xxx more…